How can I best prepare for my wedding? (Part 1)

How to properly prepare for your wedding?

You just got engaged and you don't know where to start to prepare your wedding? Are the questions swirling around in your head and that of your future husband? Do not panic ! Follow this stress-free step-by-step guide to the wedding of your dreams.

Before you begin, it's important to always remember that every wedding is different. Thus, yours will be unique and for it to suit you perfectly, it's up to you to adjust the small details and adapt this guide to your desires, and you're done to prepare well for the most beautiful day of your life!

1-Dream of your unique day:

You and your lover have probably already discussed your dream wedding.

Ask yourself what you want your wedding to look like. Do you want it large or intimate? Do you want a traditional wedding with a simple and classic design or rather a specific themed wedding with an extravagant venue. Where will your wedding take place? Do you have a specific wedding venue in mind? A unique setting you would like? Near you or a distant destination?

Breathe deeply. You don't have to decide in minutes right now! Know that most couples change their vision several times throughout the preparation of their wedding. But you have to start somewhere! Relax on your sofa or during a romantic date and let your imagination run wild.

Don't forget :

· Venue

· Theme

· Colors

· Meal

This way, you will share your thoughts from the start and you can agree on a common idea. Surprises are generally not a good thing when it comes to planning a wedding. It is important to be on the same wavelength from the start!

2- Define your budget

Now is the time to be realistic and take a hard look at financing your wedding. Budgeting for a wedding is often the most stressful part. But try to do it in a judicious and pleasant way:

Be as clear as possible about the contribution of others .

Do your parents participate in the budget? A favorite auntie? Did a generous friend offer you the photographer or did he offer you his services? Be clear and precise on the amount of the contribution planned by each one in order to be able to take it into account in your total budget.

What about your savings?

How much do you each have in savings?

What percentage are you willing to spend on marriage?

Start saving now!

Some couples choose reduce their monthly expenses (less lunches, cancel streaming services you barely use, etc.) and put those savings into their wedding account. The amount you can set aside varies depending on your wedding date.

3- Choose your wedding date

Select your wedding date as soon as you can. Weekends for popular venues fill up quickly, so decide as early as possible. If you're planning a weekday wedding (a good option when your budget is tight), you'll have more leeway. they have available before choosing the best dates.

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4- Consider hiring a wedding planner

A wedding planner can be helpful in helping you with decoration, venue selection, wedding music, and outfit ideas that match your style. Some couples opt for part-service planners. Others hire a day coordinator but do the rest of the planning on their own. Weigh your options and decide what's best for you!

5- Use technology

There are many free wedding planner apps out there. Download one to help you prepare for the most relaxing day of your life. Also consider following wedding experts on social media.